feat: v2.5.5 — AI Router renamed AI Proxy, reload onto new builds, update no longer spins

AI Proxy (was AI Router):
- server/lib/ai-proxies.js, proxy-apply.js, routes/ai-proxies.js mounted at
  /api/ai-proxies and the old /api/ai-routers; `router` still accepted on the
  start routes; profiles move to <CLAUDE_HOME>/agenthub-proxies/
- dashboard_runs.router renamed in place to proxy: an older build on the same
  DB fails on that column, so dev and prod sharing one DB update together
- a proxy's baseUrl stored as its root (a typed /v1 made /v1/v1/messages);
  Test probes Claude /v1/messages and Codex /v1/responses
- Settings → AI Proxy (/settings/ai-router redirects), ProxyPicker

Updates:
- every tab reloads onto the new UI build when its WebSocket reconnects to a
  server of another version (lib/newBuildReload.ts, once per version)
- Update now stops waiting on a plugin chain that failed or pulled nothing
  (the old server never goes down), and reloads as soon as a new version answers

Also:
- a pane whose command exits at once says so (EPANEEXITED) instead of
  "Command failed: tmux set-option … mouse on"
- the pane drag preview draws where the pane actually lands

client/src/components/lanes/WorkspaceHome.tsx

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
  * `ConsoleTabs.tsx`). Inside
  * the box, like Claude Desktop's: AI (the session's own tool, the workspace's
  * by default) and one Model chip (`ModelMenu`: the tool's own list or the
- * router's models, plus Effort); under it the quieter choices — AI Router
+ * proxy's models, plus Effort); under it the quieter choices — AI Proxy
  * (Native or a profile), Permission (Claude's mode, Codex's sandbox/approval,
  * a catalog tool's bypass) and Local / New worktree — the workspace's Recents — the sessions it
  * owns and has not archived (`?lane=&archived=0`, with each one's state dot,
@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@ import { useAiTools } from "../../hooks/useAiTools";
 import { useProjectTreePrefs } from "../../lib/projectTreePrefs";
 import { ModelMenu, PromptEditor, promptWithImages, type PromptImage } from "../run/RunSetup";
 import { AiToolIcon } from "../AiToolIcon";
-import { RouterPicker, routerArg, useAiRouters, useSessionRouter } from "../run/RouterPicker";
+import { ProxyPicker, proxyArg, useAiProxies, useSessionProxy } from "../run/ProxyPicker";
 import { Select } from "../Select";
 import { MarkdownPreview } from "../MarkdownPreview";
 import { WorkspaceRowMenu, type WorkspaceMenuAction } from "./WorkspaceRowMenu";
@@ -143,25 +143,25 @@ function HomeBody({
     }
   }, [draftKey, prompt]);
   const [images, setImages] = useState<PromptImage[]>([]);
-  const [router, setRouter] = useSessionRouter();
-  const routers = useAiRouters();
-  // Claude and Codex, also before the catalog has loaded (as RouterPicker).
-  const routerCapable = entry?.routerCapable ?? (claude || codex);
+  const [proxy, setProxy] = useSessionProxy();
+  const proxies = useAiProxies();
+  // Claude and Codex, also before the catalog has loaded (as ProxyPicker).
+  const proxyCapable = entry?.proxyCapable ?? (claude || codex);
   // A profile picked for a tool that can use one; its models replace the tool's own.
-  const profile = routerCapable
-    ? (routers?.find((r) => r.name === router && !r.builtin) ?? null)
+  const profile = proxyCapable
+    ? (proxies?.find((r) => r.name === proxy && !r.builtin) ?? null)
     : null;
-  const routerModels: ModelChoice[] | undefined = profile
+  const proxyModels: ModelChoice[] | undefined = profile
     ? [
         ...new Set(
           [profile.model, profile.models.opus, profile.models.sonnet, profile.models.haiku].filter(
-            Boolean
+            (m): m is string => !!m
           )
         ),
       ].map((id) => ({ id, label: id }))
     : undefined;
   // The tool's default model (also when the catalog arrives after mount); on
-  // a router, the router's own default. A new tool or router drops the pick.
+  // a proxy, the proxy's own default. A new tool or proxy drops the pick.
   const defaultModel = profile ? "" : (entry?.defaultModel ?? "");
   const [model, setModel] = useState(defaultModel);
   useEffect(() => setModel(defaultModel), [defaultModel, tool, profile?.name]);
@@ -319,7 +319,7 @@ function HomeBody({
         // Only a different tool is named: the workspace's own keeps starting
         // even after it was disabled in Settings.
         ...(tool !== lane.tool ? { tool } : {}),
-        ...routerArg(routerCapable, router),
+        ...proxyArg(proxyCapable, proxy),
         ...(hasModel && model ? { model } : {}),
         ...(claude ? { permissionMode: mode } : {}),
         ...(codex ? { sandbox, approval } : {}),
@@ -533,7 +533,7 @@ function HomeBody({
                   value={model}
                   onChange={setModel}
                   tool={tool}
-                  choices={routerModels}
+                  choices={proxyModels}
                   {...(hasEffort ? { effort, onEffortChange: setEffort } : {})}
                 />
               )}
@@ -556,12 +556,12 @@ function HomeBody({
           data-testid="workspace-home-options"
           className="mt-1.5 flex flex-wrap items-center gap-0.5 px-1"
         >
-          <RouterPicker
+          <ProxyPicker
             variant="ghost"
             tool={tool}
-            routers={routers}
-            value={router}
-            onChange={setRouter}
+            proxies={proxies}
+            value={proxy}
+            onChange={setProxy}
           />
           {claude && (
             <Select<PermissionMode>