fix(lanes): keep stage detection honest across rollbacks and feature switches

Three defects let a lane's pipeline map claim progress that was not this
pass's work, all of them on the "going back" path a new request takes:

- `setStage` cleared the detection columns on a real transition but never
  pruned the `stages` records AHEAD of the new stage. A lane that ran through
  `done` and was then declared back at `plan` rendered `plan` as `current`
  while `tests`/`review`/`done` still read `done`, carrying the previous
  pass's evidence, and contradicting `progress` (computed from the declared
  index alone). A backwards declaration now drops every record it can prove
  is ahead; a key matching no node is unplaceable and left alone.
- `activateFeature` rewrote the live lane row for the incoming feature but
  carried the outgoing one's `detected_*` across. A never-seen slug starts at
  `stage='idle'`/`stages={}`, exactly the shape `inferredDisplayStage` renders
  from detection, so the new feature opened painted with the old one's
  progress — and forward-only rejected every real detection for it until the
  carried-over one aged past DETECTION_TTL_MS. Now cleared, like every other
  real transition; deliberately not archived, since detection is live-only.
- `codex-ingest` classified a rollout journal by raw `now - mtime`, which goes
  negative for a future mtime (clock stepped back, NTP correction, a restore
  that preserved timestamps) and read as "written milliseconds ago". A
  finished thread's journal could replay as live work; a file claiming to be
  from the future is now idle.

Also fixes `check-headers.sh`, which audited via `find` and so reported local
gitignored runtime state (a lane's own `.ccam/profile/hooks/*.sh`) that is not
this repo's source and can never be made compliant here. It now lists files
through git (tracked + untracked-but-not-ignored), so a file an agent just
wrote is still caught before it is staged while ignored state is not.

Tests: 1359 pass (4 new). Header audit exits 0.

server/__tests__/codex-ingest.test.js

@@ -303,6 +303,22 @@ describe("codex ingest pass", () => {
     lanes.deleteLane(lane.id);
   });
 
+  it("does not replay a journal whose mtime is in the FUTURE", () => {
+    // A clock stepped back (or a restore that preserved timestamps) leaves a
+    // finished thread's mtime ahead of now. Raw `now - mtime` is then negative,
+    // which reads as "written milliseconds ago" and would replay it as live work.
+    const cwd = fs.mkdtempSync(path.join(os.tmpdir(), "codex-lane-"));
+    const lane = lanes.createLane({ title: "cx", cwd, tool: "codex" });
+    const file = writeRollout("rollout-2026-08-27T10-00-00-fut.jsonl", cwd);
+    const future = Date.now() + 6 * 60 * 60 * 1000;
+    fs.utimesSync(file, future / 1000, future / 1000);
+    codex.__resetOffsets();
+
+    assert.equal(codex.ingestCodexOnce({}), 0);
+    assert.equal(lanes.getLane(lane.id).detected_stage, null);
+    lanes.deleteLane(lane.id);
+  });
+
   it("ignores a torn/partial JSONL line at the end of a file", () => {
     const cwd = fs.mkdtempSync(path.join(os.tmpdir(), "codex-torn-line-"));
     const lane = lanes.createLane({ title: "cx", cwd, tool: "codex" });