feat(lanes): Antigravity lanes, release exited panes, fresh Codex starts

- antigravity: a third lane tool running Antigravity's `agy` CLI. `-i`
  carries the first prompt, `--continue` resumes; `agy` has no model,
  effort or permission flag, and `--dangerously-skip-permissions` is never
  emitted. No pipeline, no agents install, and no AI Router (native only,
  else EUNSUPPORTED). Add lane gains an Antigravity choice and the binary
  probe maps it to `agy`.
- UI: the lane card no longer renders a frame holding only a "Codex" chip,
  and the prompt box names the lane's CLI ("Ask Codex anything…"), via
  LANE_TOOL_LABEL.
- runs: a pane that exits is released on a 10 s server beat
  (healAllRunIds, DASHBOARD_RUN_HEAL_MS). Codex and Antigravity fire no
  hook, so their lanes stayed "running" until something re-read them.
- codex: Start no longer sends resumeLast — only "Resume last session"
  continues the previous thread.

server/lib/lanes.js

@@ -96,7 +96,7 @@ function validateKind(kind) {
   }
 }
 
-const VALID_TOOLS = new Set(["claude", "codex"]);
+const VALID_TOOLS = new Set(["claude", "codex", "antigravity"]);
 
 function validateTool(tool) {
   if (!VALID_TOOLS.has(tool)) {